By Kaitlyn Taylor
Let’s face it; we’re spoiled.
We live in a fast-paced world with speedy internet, fast fashion, instant messaging, fast-food restaurants, same-day delivery, and so much more. We’re used to our lives continually moving at a rapid pace. So, when our world comes to an abrupt halt, and our lives are turned upside-down, it can be challenging to adjust to the sudden change.
Today’s youth are certainly frustrated right along with the rest of us because of these uncertain times. They’re experiencing milestone events such as prom and graduation in a severely different way. It’s understandable for teens to grow anxious because of the trouble the world is facing because it affects their future just as much as anyone else’s. Where is my future headed? Can I have a graduation party? a farewell party for when I leave for college? Will I even be able to go to college? These are just a few thoughts that are swarming the minds of teens today.
So, how do we help them process and learn to cope with isolation? We encourage them to put their creativity to work! An obvious way for them to cope is through social media, where they can easily keep in touch with their peers. Between instant messaging, video chat, or even a good old-fashioned phone call, convenient technology makes it effortless to connect with others.
But ask your teens to think beyond that! Remind them to consider talking with friends and family that are more susceptible to loneliness, such as their grandparents, who would probably appreciate a “just checking in” phone call every now and then.
An even simpler approach would be sending someone a Bible verse in a text, letting the other person know that they’re remembered. An appropriate Scripture would be Philippians 1:3 (NLT): “Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God.”
If the convenient ways of technology are too elementary for some teens, they can always try a more creative path, such as “drive-by birthdays.” Since attending social events is risky, this is a great way to practice safe social distancing, all while supporting their loved one by celebrating another year of their life.
When stay-at-home orders are no longer in effect, teens can purchase “care packages” for their friends or family members and place them on their front porch. They can ring the bell and run away, much like the prank “ding-dong ditch.” Not only is this fun, it also encourages the generosity of giving.
The most important thing to remember is that, though we are separated, we can still come together. We just have to be innovative with our ideas. We won’t let the loneliness consume us. Instead, we’ll use the creativity God has given us to make it through!
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances;
for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 ESV